What happiness do girlfriends get by making their boyfriends feel jealous and possessive?

No partner can make me feel jealous and possessive. Jealousy and possessiveness are not qualities I want to bring into any relationship.

A partner could piss me right off by attempting to make me feel jealous and possessive, however. My response would most likely be something like “Why are you doing that? Please stop doing that. That’s unpleasant and unnecessary. Just tell me what it is you want from me and I’ll see if I can provide it for you. Doesn’t that sound much better than trying to hurt my feelings? I would never do that to you.”

If they continued the behavior anyway, they would be an ex-partner with a quickness. Maybe they get to feel desired, passionate, and attractive, but they could get all those things without trying to control or manipulate others. If they need manipulation, game-playing, and control to feel good, then good luck to them. I don’t see those situations ending well for them or the people unfortunate enough to be involved with them.