I am a freshman in college. Should I continue to pursue my crush even though he gave me 2 different answers when I told him I liked him?
Let me ask you a question.
Wouldn’t you like to find someone you’re attracted to who unequivocally wants you the way you want him?
When someone wavers in their interest in you, that is not a yes. You should take it as a no, even if there might be a mutual attraction.
Yes, he could be shy, insecure, not willing to trust, waiting for further confirmation of your interest in him, et cetera. He could have other wonderful qualities I’m sure you would give as proof he’s worth your further interest. But he’s lacking the one quality that actually matters: unquestionably wanting what you’re offering and being willing to show that through his actions. Attraction is not enough.
If you want to wait, here’s how I would suggest you do so: go on dates, meetups, get togethers, and state up front that you’re looking for romantic/sexual companionship. You don’t have to commit to anything while you’re doing this, but let it be known you are undoubtedly looking. You get to decide the conditions under which this happens (ethically, socially, religiously or non-religiously, romantically/sexually, what you’re looking for in age, gender, relationship style, and so forth), but make it explicit that romance/sex/non-platonic adult companionship is what you’re seeking. If he comes around and says he’s interested, let him know you’re still going to date other people. This is not about forcing his hand or attempting to make him jealous. This is about you and what you want. If he’s truly interested in you, he’ll make that known. If not, he’ll either reject you or do his hesitation dance yet again.
You deserve honest companionship with honest individuals in touch enough with their emotions and desires to know and express that they want you as much as you want them.
Best of luck.