I don’t find black women attractive even though I’m not a racist. Why is that?

Black women have much, much, much more important things to do than worry about the randos that aren’t attracted to them. Trust me.

This falls under the “keep it to yourself” heading. As long as you’re not lecturing black women on who they should date/find attractive/partner with, they never need to know your personal preferences.

Besides, how do you think black women would feel if you forced yourself to go on dates with them to prove something, only to find out later that you were faking interest/attraction/desire to prove how “not racist” you are?

The answer is not good/used/manipulated/like a pity project.

We black folks don’t need to know why you don’t find us attractive and we don’t really give a shit. Keep your lips zipped about this.

Addendum: We black folks have been brainwashed/mindfucked for centuries via white supremacy on how unattractive, subhuman, and undesirable we are. Maybe your question was innocent. But it happens within a framework of us being designated as the eternal, disgusting, unwanted “other.” Our so-called “sensitivity” on this issue comes from past and current oppression. Anti-black racism is a very specific sort of oppression that doesn’t apply to other races. We’re the experts on this, not other people who tell us to “lighten up.”