If women don’t like abusive men, why are so many abusive men in relationships whereas men who are kind and respectful are single?

What the fuck are you even suggesting?

Are you seriously saying that a man has to be a violent, consent-disrespecting shithead in order to date, have sex, or get married?

Someone seems to be suffering a severe case of Nice Guy™ Syndrome. (Hint: guys that act like this are not nice because they treat their “niceness” like a bartering tool for fucking, love, and attention.)

And there are plenty of nice men, women, and individuals who choose to remain single because they like being single. Marriage/partnering is not the be-all, end-all of every human’s existence. Try not to engage in singlism, either.