I am 14 and bi. The problem is my 2 biggest crushes are my best friends (a girl /loves gay people) and a boy (totally homophobic) What should I do?

Ask your friend that’s a girl if she’d like to be your “goin’ steady,” “sippin’ milkshakes at the soda shop,” holding hands girlfriend (yes, I’m dating myself).

Keep your friend that’s a boy at arm’s length. Keep it casual with him and demote him to an ex-friend unless he shows major signs of personality improvement (retracting/reversing his bigotry). You don’t need that shit in your life.

All the best.