How should I deal with my very high sexual libido? My spouse and I live in different places (Too far!) due to our professional commitments and we meet just once a year for few days only. I am in my thirties. What should I do?
In your case, don’t worry about the practice of my suggestions. Consider the purpose of them.
If you can keep the following secure and private between each other, may I suggest …
- Phone sex?
- Sexting?
- Dirty pictures of each other?
- Writing each other dirty stories and sending them via old-fashioned letter and stamped envelope (that you perfume)?
- Touching yourselves (in private, of course) as little or as much as you’d like?
- Buying an array and assortment of sex toys?
- Seeing other people (if you’re both non-monogamous and have honestly and ethically established your boundaries ahead of time)?
- Scheduling as many “sex dates” as you can once you finally do meet up?
I could go on, but you get the picture (figuratively and literally).
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