I get orgasms alone but not with my boyfriend. How can I fix it?

Short answer: Share your orgasms with him and allow him to share his with you.

Longer, less snarky answer: We don’t know what’s preventing you from sharing this information with your partner. We can’t. However, we can make some educated guesses.

1. Are there some unresolved relationship issues leading to resentment that gets in the way of you being sexually comfortable with your partner?
2. Did you grow up in a sexually repressive environment (replete with slut-shaming, sex shaming, seeing traditional heterosexual monogamous marriage as the only valid choice)?
3. Are you comfortable sharing exactly what it is that you require to orgasm with your partner or do you think he should just know somehow?
4. Are you willing to incorporate masturbation, vibrators, and sex toys into your partnered sex with your boyfriend?
5. Are you willing to perform oral sex on your boyfriend but find him unwilling to return the favor or ineffective when doing so?
6. Are you both willing to see a certified sex therapist?

I could go on, but you get the picture. If you know what gets you off yet somehow can’t communicate that information to your boyfriend, try to imagine what your ideal sex would be like if you could. “Communication” includes pictures, videos, moans and sighs, hand signals, examples from other people, etc. They all count—not just talking and written communication.