Sex seems to be so much better for women. Does the male to female transition make the trans woman have orgasms that are powerful and multiple like cisgender women’s orgasms. Can I expect to have orgasms that strong when I get my vagina?

“Sex seems to be so much better for women.”

Er, um … sex isn’t a contest. Unless you and your partner(s) want to incorporate a “Who can have the most orgasms?” element to your kinky fun times. In my book, if every consenting individual agrees to the aforementioned conditions, everyone wins.

If you can have orgasms with your current genital configuration, you can have them with another one.

There are plenty of women who can have multiple orgasms, but prefer something like a “one and done” scenario. This is what people (men in particular) who try to give women multiple orgasms, G-Spot stimulation, etc., need to understand. Repeat after me. Ability is not necessarily preference. And even if certain women’s preferences are to have multiple orgasms while masturbating or having partnered sex, that is only indicative of those particular women’s desires.

And what people also need to understand is that there are plenty of techniques to help men prolong and intensify their sexual satisfaction and orgasms and even approach something similar (not primarily ejaculation and genital-focused) to the multiple orgasms that many women report.

Basically, people of any sexual, romantic, and gender orientation are more alike than they are different, despite fucked-up bigoted social dynamics.