How can I feel confident when I’m a 31-year-old single female, feel like my biological clock is ticking, gray hair showing, and I cannot compare to younger females?  When I’m with a guy I constantly think that they see me as old and desperate.

Take a look at these links and tell me the common denominator.

Guessed it yet? To me, it’s obvious. Maybe it isn’t to you, but here’s my answer.

It’s not arrogance or vanity. It’s confidence.

It has very little to do with the technical details of beauty (which tend to be youth obsessed) and everything to do with the attitude, presentation, and style of the women in question. They know they’re sexy and they have no problem projecting that.

When you know you’re sexy and let that shine forth from within, at any age, others will, too. Be careful, though. Women and other people that aren’t (strictly) gendered might notice as well, not just men.

Happy sexing!     ; – )