Women don’t want to date me because they claim I am too handsome and too successful for them, and that I would leave them for a better woman. What do I do to show them I’m not too good for them?

You accept their “No” first time, every time. Then you go find women who actually do want to date you.

No is a complete sentence.

There is no secret formula, there are no magic words, there is no system that unlocks someone’s friendship, heart, or body for you.

If you fail to do this, if you really think there is a “workaround” to rejection, you show women by your actions that their decisions don’t matter to you, only access to them does.

If you were looking for agreement from others that their reasons for rejecting you are shallow … you won’t be getting that agreement from me.

People’s reasons for rejecting friends, romantic suitors, and sexual partners are their own. They’re entitled to them no matter how unfair and dismissive you think they are.

Don’t try to show them anything. Your self-esteem is not dependent on others and they don’t need to be taught a “lesson.” If they see how good you are at accepting a woman’s agency, choices, and preferences, they just might point other women who might be interested in you in your direction.

However, if you try everything and anything to “get” them, especially after they’ve clearly indicated they’re not interested in you, you’ll become “that guy” they tell other women to avoid.