Casual sex is for any honest, ethical individual that wants casual sex.

What should I do if I am a forever-single type of young woman (the one who nobody is serious about) who is always craving sex?  Where can I find sex with no strings attached, with strangers to have fun in my life?

Ignore any “advice” that suggests all you have to do is show up as a woman and great, no-strings sex immediately follows. You know you better than anyone else will.

Here’s a good article at Huffington Post by Francesca Hogi.

Here are my suggestions:

  1. Know your hard and soft limits and be prepared to walk away from anyone who tries to [a] talk you out of them, [b] diminish them, or [c] ignore them completely.
  2. Have ready, unimpeded access to effective barrier protection and insist on its correct usage with your partner(s) every time. If you can reliably establish clean STD statuses (your partners’ and your own) over the long haul (1 year or greater), make your own judgement calls. It’s always a good idea to pair this up with long-term contraceptive options if you have the kind of body that can get pregnant.
  3. Know what you’re looking for in a casual sex relationship and spell that out upfront with potential partners (friendship along with casual sex but no serious romantic relationships; strictly sex only without friendship or romance; casual sex that might lead to romance or long-term monogamous partnership; non-monogamous relationship styles like polyamory and/or swinging; etc.).
  4. Pay attention to warning signs and be ready to bail at a moment’s notice if your internal red flags go up. This means irresponsible drug use, deception about past or current relationship status, abusive behavior, and so on.
  5. Have a fairly good idea of what it takes for you to have satisfying sexual encounters and be prepared to speak up and show your partners what that looks like and feels like. These are things like requiring extensive foreplay or not, being kinky or vanilla or some combination of such, the times of day you most like to make love, your favorite sexual positions or activities, and so forth.

Maybe you can make yourself a sexual “cheat sheet” you put in a handbag or backpack along with your protection and toys and take them along with you on a date.

I was going to post a link for the eight best dating sites for women, but the only one that specifically related to what you’re looking for is Adult Friend Finder. There are also Tinder and Pure. Maybe you want to go old school and have your more sexually adventurous yet trustworthy friends set you up with someone based on your preferences.  Ask yourself how willing you are to make the first move if you want to try bars, clubs, or party scenes.  If you try those scenes, make sure never to take a drink you didn’t purchase yourself.  Swingers clubs are usually for couples, so those options may be limited.  Polyamorous organizations cater to long-term, simultaneous romantic/sexual relationships, so that may be a dead end for you, as well.

One last piece of advice: always make sure the first date is in a public place. If you’re going to have sex on that date, get a hotel room instead of taking them back to your place or going to theirs. Also notify someone you trust where you will be and when you expect to be back from the date. That person can then call you or family or friends if you aren’t back in time when you say you will be.

Good luck, happy casual sex, and all the best.