How do I seduce my maid who is 20 years older than me?

How about you not do that shit, okay? You’re a depressingly familiar cliché right now.

You as an employer would be using hierarchical leverage, not to mention the threat of lost income and future employment opportunities, to sexually harass and potentially rape your employee. Those are not only ethical and human rights violations, they’re crimes and they damn well should be.

Seriously, save your kinky fantasies for a consenting kinky sex partner, a sex worker that agrees to your terms, or self-pleasuring session.

Addendum: Even if you’re a customer at a hotel or someone’s guest at a private estate that has domestic servants, this same behavior is still skeevy and potentially criminal. Leave the woman alone to do her job in peace. You are not going to charm an already put-upon and often underpaid service worker. You’re just going to make her hate and dread you.