How can I seduce one of my friend’s roommates, and have sex with her?
Definition of seduce (Dictionary.com):
- to lead astray, as from duty, rectitude, or the like; corrupt.
- to persuade or induce to have sexual intercourse.
- to lead or draw away, as from principles, faith, or allegiance.
- to win over; attract; entice.
I’m pretty sure you don’t want to start relationships with people at the cost of their ethics. They would eventually resent you and themselves for betraying their most deeply held convictions. Scratch numbers one and three off the list.
That leaves being persuasive, winning, attractive, and enticing to the person you want. But you can’t know that without sensing if she feels toward you the way you feel towards her.
You could certainly try to [a] hit on her or [b] hint around about your feelings or [c] be pushy and aggressive or [d] pretend to be someone you’re not. Any of those strategies will be off-putting to most people, however. If she’s conventionally attractive, she’s had a lifetime of unwanted attention, most likely from men.
So you’re back to being persuasive, winning, attractive, and enticing. What about you would make this woman want to be with you? If you can’t answer this question honestly, candidly, and ethically, she certainly won’t be able to see why you would be worth her time.
Even if many other people confirm your attractiveness, she may not see it, acknowledge it, or desire you. Those are the breaks. The best you can do is indicate your interest, preferably not by using your friendship with her roommate as an excuse to hang around where she lives and make her feel unsafe.
When your friend isn’t around, choose a time and place away from her residence to introduce yourself to her and ask her out. The following is the most important step: accept the answer you get the first time and let it be. Honoring people’s boundaries is a deeply attractive quality, even if it doesn’t lead to dates or sex with this woman. Others who might want you will appreciate your ability to respect their decisions. So many individuals, especially men, don’t honor consent.
All the best to you as you search for consensual, respectful, ethical relationships.
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