There’s no “Best at Sex” trophy to be won.

How can I impress my boyfriend on our first night having sex?

  1. Tell the truth.
  2. Listen to each other.
  3. Don’t pressure yourself to put on a show or make the first time the best sex ever.

Chances are it’s not going to be “the best sex ever.” First times between partners are routinely awkward. Count on it and don’t beat yourself or him up about it.

After you get over the first-time jitters and relax, the sex has an excellent chance of getting much, much better (as long as you’re honest and not horribly incompatible).

If you can pull this off, over the long haul he should be mostly impressed with your confidence, maturity, and integrity.

Best of luck.