I used to be able to have an orgasm in the cowgirl position with my boyfriend of two years. Now, it is nearly impossible. We’ve tried a few things. What can be done?

Bodies can change and tastes can change, even sexual ones.

Try something novel not with the goal of orgasm but instead with the goal of feeling good. If something rougher or softer, kinkier or more vanilla, more experimental or more intimate strikes your fancy (or anything in between), do that and give feedback. The goal is not to obtain “The One True Sex.” Instead, it’s to explore the many different kinds of sex that make you and your partner feel really good.

FYI: There’s nothing wrong with getting yourself to orgasm or having your partner get you to orgasm during partnered sex (manual clitoral stimulation you do or he does). You can even bring toys into the mix if you want.

All the best.