Find your group. Don’t try to drag someone into it.

Is the majority of society nowadays into one night stands and casual dating instead of long term relationships that lead to marriage? I only had two boyfriends. I feel now I will never marry nor find a compatible person that is decent.

No, the majority of society (how you even reliably quantify that is beyond me) is not into one night stands and casual dating instead of long term relationships leading to marriage.

What you might be observing is that a decent percentage of people now have viable options for engaging in casual dates, one-night stands, and friends-with-benefits situations where that might not have been the case in the past. Many of these people do not want long-term relationships that lead to marriage. This is a better situation for them than getting married because society expects them to do so. This contributes to a lower instance of dysfunctional and unsatisfactory long-term relationships and marriages.

Again, there are options not only for people that seek nontraditional relationships, but also for people that want equal relationships that more closely align with traditional monogamous social structures.

Believe it or not, this is a good development for you. People, such as yourself, that actually want long-term relationships leading to marriage can seek those kinds of relationships with like-minded individuals. All those who don’t want you and everyone else you don’t want you can filter out of your dating pool.

All the best.