My husband wants me to be a hot wife. Should I?

Let’s just make things blazingly obvious, shall we?

This is not simply a description about the appearance of a married woman.

“Hot wife” is code for a married woman who sleeps with other people, usually men, because she wants to, but also because it’s a sexual thrill for her partner, usually a man, who is also turned on by the scenario. Bonus points if she sleeps with that other person in front of her committed partner.

Does this interest you?

My initial guess is that it doesn’t interest you because (1) you’re asking strangers if it’s okay and (2) you didn’t initiate the interest in this activity. I see a thousand ways this can go spectacularly wrong for the both of you.

If it does interest you, make sure your other partners’ feelings are taken into account so you’re not simply treating them like a prop in your fantasies. Obviously make sure everyone involved has been tested for STIs and safer sex procedures are in place and will be practiced. Also screen out potential abusers, stalkers, and people that don’t practice good consent skills.

All the best.