Why wouldn’t a woman want two men in bed simultaneously as a man wants two women in bed at the same time?

Wow, gender essentialism seems to be going strong this week!

Hey, do you use Quora? You do? Awesome!

Then maybe you’ve seen this question or this question or this question.

If you count up the women who considered their MMF experiences positive, that’s nine women that dispel the stereotype you’re suggesting. Obviously that’s not every woman or even most women. But the women who like it really like it.

“It’s the most intense, mind-blowing sex possible.”

“If done well, [it’s] an awesome, rich experience with a lot of stimulation … and it’s absolutely wonderful.”

“Twice the force, twice the action, twice the fun. … It was an immersive experience. The varying degree of pressure and pleasure, the dynamic motion, the exhausting and exhilarating orgasms and the sounds of sex.”

“Personally two or more guys at the same time is always better than one. … [It] is heaven.”

“You simply switch off and FEEL. The pleasure is incredible just because you have to lose control and leave it to the partners.”

“[It] takes me to a place nothing else can. Even the thought of losing control … turns me on. Few things are as pleasurable and fun as making love with two men simutaneously. It is fucking amazing. … [It] is clearly one of the best moments of my sex life.”

“The truth is I’d want [it] almost all the time if I could get it but it’s not always easy to arrange.”

“[The] craving is insane! My body shakes even after the session. I knew I was born for it.”

“[It] is actually really dreamy and spaces you out amazingly. … [It’s] an amazing feeling.”

“[It] is an absolutely fantastic experience. … I feel like I am in paradise.”

“[It] is one of the best sexual experiences a girl can have.”

So put that in your pipe and smoke it. I’d say that compares pretty favorably to the men who have had (or want) sex with two or more women at the same time.

And, because they’re not a hive mind, obviously not every woman wants this experience or has enjoyed it even if they agreed to it.

“[It] doesn’t feel very great.”

“[It] was all about the guys getting off and not really about me. … I got tired and [it] became more irritating than enjoyable.”

“I can’t imagine how [others] do it. It [seems] terribly uncomfortable. … Thanks, but no thanks. One is enough for me.”