Do virgin women, who’ve never had pre-marital sex, make better wives than non-virgin women who’ve been promiscuous before marriage? Are they more likely to be faithful to their husbands and less likely to be aggressive, rebellious and demanding?

Let’s get to the heart of the matter, shall we?

This question is really about how to find an obedient, submissive woman/wife who won’t complain when her culture/husband decides to treat her like shit.

The lack of comparison with other partners is presumed to benefit this type of man’s fragile sense of self. In his small, misogynistic mind, she will have no other options, therefore he will assume she’ll be okay and satisfied with the crumbs of affection and lack of consideration he’ll show her.

But she’ll know, anyway. That promise of being obedient is usually unequally counterbalanced by the promise that the man will be loving and considerate. However, that promise can never be fulfilled because its premise is based on women’s subjugation, no matter how on board the unwitting victim is with the whole procedure at the onset. Even if she stays chained to those terrible conditions, she’ll eventually retreat and withdraw into herself, secure in the knowledge that men are innately selfish and irredeemable when it comes to respect, consideration, and equality for women. What you describe as “aggressive, rebellious and demanding” is simply a woman complaining about the chain being placed around her neck by cultures and individuals invested in misogyny.

This answer, however, is not about criticizing partners that choose to forgo sex before and even during marriage. They have my unmitigated support. So do the women that are promised something they won’t achieve in this setup. My most fervent wish is that they break loose before it’s too late and embrace their freedom, autonomy, and self-respect before hateful men and their outmoded choices beat them down.

The men and their supporters perpetrating this gaslighting societal shell game get nothing but my well-earned contempt.