How would you hit on a guy who dreamt of having sex with you (and he told you that while drunk), but claims to be unsure he consciously wants to?

If you’re sure you want to have sex:

“Hey, remember that wild dream you had the other day of us doing it?

I’m up for it. Do you want to do that for real?

If so, here’s my number/text me (whatever 21st century communication style suits your fancy). I’ve been tested and am disease free plus I’ve also got an assortment of barrier protection options {and use long-term birth control [only for people who can get pregnant]}.”

If you want to wait to have sex:

“Hey, remember that wild dream you had the other day of us doing it?

I’d like to get to know you better first. Do you want to go out on a date?

If so, here’s my number/text me (whatever 21st century communication style suits your fancy). I’ll let you know later if I’m ready to take it to another level.”

If you want to date romantically without any sexual contact:

“Hey, remember that wild dream you had the other day of us doing it?

I’m ace, but I’d fancy a nonsexual romantic relationship with you if you’d like one.

If you’re still interested, here’s my number/text me (whatever 21st century communication style suits your fancy).”

You know, something like that.

Direct communication is your friend.     : – )