How can younger men get older women to have sex?
Well, you could have researched this yourself (Google and DuckDuckGo are your friends). In lieu of that, here are some of the possible complaints many women of any age have of far too many men in the dating scene.
- Hating women. Yeah, this seems obvious. However, you’d be surprised how many men haven’t worked out that despising/fearing women isn’t an endearing quality.
- Insulting women who aren’t like your potential older partner. Attracted to older women? Fine. Don’t run down younger women in their presence and think that’s going to be attractive. After all, older women were once younger women themselves. The same applies to preferences in height, race, gender, body type, and so on (especially if your preference is for what’s considered “the norm”; especially if your preference isn’t the norm [fetishism by and large ain’t cool]—putting down what you don’t prefer is repellent, so focus instead on what you specifically like about your potential partner that isn’t just about appearance or status).
- Moving too fast; being disrespectful. That means [a] no “dick pics” as an opening introduction, [b] showing up on time for dates and events, and [c] waiting for attraction to be expressed easily and naturally instead of rushing to sex.
- Not washing yourself thoroughly; not being appropriately groomed.Again, this is one of those “Isn’t that obvious?” things you’d think many adult men should have figured out already. You don’t have to overdo it with cologne or body spray. In fact, you should probably avoid them altogether. Just make sure you thoroughly use soap and water, especially in and between all of the parts you might be sharing. If your partner prefers a “smooth” experience, then shave (everywhere that matters). Trim those fingernails and toenails and wash underneath them. Brush your teeth.
- Not listening. As always, be yourself, but be genuinely interested in what your potential partner has to say about herself. You can like talking about yourself and being proud of your accomplishments. Just make sure you return the favor with enthusiasm.
- Resorting to stereotypes. That means no “MILF” or “cougar” presumptions out of you, mister.
Treat any woman you eventually see with the respect and dignity you’d want her to show you.