If a man has some feeling he might want to sexually harass women, how does he control himself and not do it?

Simple: He just doesn’t do it.

And, yes, it is just that simple.

The people that want you to think sexual frustration is some great, life-threatening struggle (like an individual dying of thirst or hunger) are bullshitting you.

Has anyone ever died from not getting their jollies? Yeah, that number is solidly zero. It was in the past and it will be in the future.

If you want to harass and abuse others (not just sexually), it’s because you believe you have the right to impose yourself on them.

I wonder when, where, and how you learned that.

I also wonder where and how you learned you could get away with it.

Grooming, harassment, molestation, and rape are all choices. Abusers, furthermore, choose to ignore the harm their decisions create.