How do I stop hating women? I hate how over emotional they are and how they’re so feminine and soft.

Is what you’re describing actual hate or maybe something else, hmm?

You:

I hate how over emotional {women} are and how they’re so feminine and soft.

Your inner emotional turmoil due to structural misogyny and gender essentialism:

I hate that women get to experience a full range of emotions and personality styles and still maintain their womanhood while I as a man am chastised and corrected for anything other than stony stoicism.

You know what women think when they hear the shit you just spewed?

I hate how many men think traditional masculinity is superior when so many of them are clearly miserable because of it and take it out on us.

Why do you hate emotions? Why do you hate softness? Honesty and empathy are two of the most attractive qualities anyone can have.