I don’t think you deserve the benefit of the doubt.

There’s my neighbor aunt who is busty and is large sized everywhere. I want to make out with her. Many times she stays alone in her house. She is married and has a kid aged 15. Should I take [a] risk and have sex with her or not?

In all sincerity …

Are you a rapist?

You aren’t? If indeed you aren’t some form of sexual predator, then why are you soliciting approval from others to act like one?

  1. You’ve spotted a woman whose physical appearance is sexually appealing to you.
  2. You’ve indicated a desire to interact with her sexually.
  3. You already know she’s in a committed relationship and has a child, yet you’ve somehow concluded she would be romantically and physically interested in you.
  4. You’ve already figured out the times when she’s alone and isolated in her house.
  5. You consider approaching an isolated, vulnerable individual with a spectacularly creepy and inappropriate sexual demand as some sort of imaginary risk to yourself instead of as a credible threat to her and her family.

So again, in all sincerity, if you aren’t a rapist, please stop acting like one.