As a woman, what should I know before I have sex with another woman?

If you think it’s going to be nothing but pixie dust and womanly understanding and psychic love predictions and mutual multiple orgasms …

Well, it might be all of those things, but it most likely won’t be. Hopefully you’ll both be mostly compatible, but there are no guarantees.

You share a gender, not a brain. You have to let her know what you’re like and what you like and she has the responsibility to do the same. You’d have this same responsibility if you were going to have sex with a man.

Be honest and brave. Good luck to the both of you.