What do I do? My husband asked for a divorce. We met 7 years ago. I have a low sex drive and we have had sex only 5 times in 3 years. I didn’t think it was a big problem. Now that he has told me, I want to work on the relationship but he doesn’t.

You move on.

Sex is not that big a deal for you. Sex is a very big deal for your soon-to-be ex-husband.

Unless you plan on having a lot more sex than you want (which would be a self-imposed nightmare for you), there’s nothing to fix. You are both fundamentally incompatible.

There’s nothing to work on anymore between the two of you. What you should both work on is being transparent and honest from the jump in your future relationships.

Once you feel comfortable with dating again, state right up front that you have a low libido and like it that way. People that have moderate to high libidos should filter themselves out of your dating pool.

All the best to you both and your prospective partners.