How can a girl go from cute to sexy?

Honestly, this question should include everyone, not just the cute and not just girls, women, and feminine individuals.

To be fair, not everyone wants to be sexy. That is certainly their prerogative and I would never encourage anyone that didn’t want to express sexuality to do so.

But for those of us that think of sexuality as a very important aspect of our natures, here’s my two cents.

• Own your innate eroticism. I don’t mean bragging, boasting, or being offensive. I mean acknowledging and honoring that inner spark and desire that animates your movements, your expressions, your body, and your mind.
• Do it your way and don’t let anyone talk you out of it. Find your own fashion sense, your own way of talking, your own way of smiling, your own way of being happy and sexy and showing it. It won’t be everyone’s cup of tea, but it will be yours and it will be delicious.
• Enjoy movement. I don’t mean copying society’s idea of sexy. I mean enjoying how your body moves through space, whether it be dance, walking, exercise, play, rest, and obviously sex.
• Laugh. Do it heartily, let it rumble through your throat and belly, and savor the sensation.
• Hold a secret in your heart and know that it’s precious. Move through the world like you’ve got the sexiest secret ever you’ll only share with the luckiest people that earn the right to know you.
• Know your importance and settle for nothing less than excellence. I’m not talking specifically about partners. However, I’m not excluding them either. When you eat, savor and enjoy it. When you play, really move and explore. When you rest, hit the pillow, zone out, and don’t let anyone interrupt you. When you dress, let the fabric caress your skin.

It’s an amazing and arousing world out there. Claim your share and celebrate when others do the same.