I am bad at sex but I don’t have a boyfriend to practice with. Casual sex partners won’t be that patient to help me. What can I do?

Try asking (a) potential casual sex partner(s) in the following fashion.

“Hey, FWB(s)/FB(s):

I’m somewhat inexperienced with sex and romance and would like to get better, for my own self confidence and to really please my partner(s).

Do you think you could take it slow with me and let me set the pace? I really want to find out what I truly enjoy, I want to be great at this, and I think you could show me things I don’t know yet. I also want to be good enough to rock your world.

What do you say?”

This sets up a win/win scenario for both of you. You’ve taken your potential partners feelings into account as well as your own and you’ve made the possible scenario(s) about enjoyment and discovery, not performance.

When you find something you or your partner don’t enjoy, you can simply say “That doesn’t work for me. Can we try something else or try again?”

However, when you and your partner(s) do find something you enjoy, you can all let each other know it’s working.

I’ll leave it to you to decide how to express when it’s “working.” I’m sure you’ll come up with something.

All the best.