Why aren’t there decent girls who want love and not sex?

There are. They just haven’t stuck around long enough for you to get to know them.

Sexual women, even highly sexual women, may not fit certain dictionary definitions of “decent” …

• Sufficiently clothed.
• Free from indelicacy or obscenity.
• Characterized by conformity to recognized standards of propriety or morality.

… but those same highly sexual women could very well meet other dictionary definitions of “decent.”

• Suitable; fitting.
• Fairly good; acceptable; satisfactory.
• Kind or obliging.
• Showing thoughtfulness or consideration.
• showing integrity, fairness, or other characteristics associated with moral uprightness.

My personal definition of decency doesn’t rest with how much or how little sex someone has or is having. It’s whether or not a person respects consent, is honest, and demonstrates consideration for others.

This could be the source of your problem. It appears you think someone’s decency (especially girls’, women’s, and feminine people’s) rests on how much sex they’ve had or are having.

Even asexual and traditionally romantic women won’t take very kindly to you thinking they lose decency points based on how often they’ve fucked.

So if you want to increase your chances with women (especially the traditionally romantic and conservative ones you seem to value over others), lose the negative attitude about how much sex women have or might desire and focus on being decent yourself.

• Be kind and obliging.
• Show thoughtfulness or consideration.
• Demonstrate integrity, fairness, and other characteristics associated with being a good person.

All the best.