There are some people that believe nonmonogamous equals narcissistic, dishonest, inconsiderate, selfish, and every shitty adjective under the sun.
That’s really bigotry against principled nonconformists.
The ethically nonmonogamous are not the safety net for society’s garbage. If decent monogomous people don’t want you, trustworthy nonmonogamous people don’t want you, either.
Maybe fix your damage so you don’t bring your bullshit to honorable unconventional people as well.